The operational manager kept saying that she needed to get an answer from head office to be sure that she was getting it right.
What I didn’t know – but she did – was that there was in fact a male member of the club who was transitioning. It had already been agreed that he would use the enclosed unisex/family changing area until fully transitioned – whatever that meant – and from that point on he would be welcome to use the female changing room.
In March 2023 I received a letter from the David Lloyd regional manager. It said: “Whilst you ask for a straightforward answer of yes or no the answer relates to a topic that is anything but straightforward and David Lloyds maintain to seek the balance of needs and concerns of individual members at club level.”
At a meeting in April 2023 we were shown the UK Active guidance adopted by David Lloyds Leisure. This allows members to access changing rooms according to their “gendered appearance”. No one at the meeting was brave enough to describe what that might actually look like!
I asked if this guidance had recently been adopted. But the David Lloyd staff were adamant that they had always followed UK Active guidance, and this had always been what it said.
Finally we were told that should I or my daughters feel intimidated, threatened or unsafe we should report it immediately to management.
Our girls are 11 and 13. They would be so shocked and humiliated at seeing a man’s penis in their female changing room I doubt they would want to tell anyone, let alone make a complaint. This is clearly not a family-friendly policy.
In accordance with our gender-critical beliefs, we do not accept that a man can become a woman in order to access the female single-sex spaces our daughters are using. I don’t accept compromising women’s and girls’ privacy and dignity in the name of “inclusivity”. It’s not inclusive of us.
Had David Lloyd Leisure made their changing room policy clear to us up-front we would never have joined.
Please support me in holding David Lloyd Leisure to account for misleading their customers. I hope by taking this action we will send a strong message to anyone sacrificing women and girls right to privacy and dignity in the name of 'Inclusivity'.
Thank you very much.
Emma
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Jane Solidarity - good luck!
Kath Good luck, Emma. This is so important.
Jackie Thank you from Aberdeen, Scotland x
Kenneth Glad to help in your fight against this evil cult.
Debra Good luck Emma. I had the same issue with Virgin Active.
Sheila Fight the good fight!!
Michelle Thank you and good luck.
Marie I support you Emma! I have five granddaughters and the two eldest are almost 11 and 10 years of age. I fear for what the future holds for them when the rights/protection of women and girls disregarded at best and under attack at worst. Well done for standing up for women and girls.
CJ Thank you for having the courage to stand up for women and girls. I wish you every success.
Michael Good luck with your worthy cause. I hope my small contribution will go some way to help you succeed in a BIG way.